Tim Ervin, LCPC, BCC, CH

 The Online "Relationship
Check-Up"

The online relationship check-up is a thorough assessment of your marriage or relationship. Its used to kick off our work with my brief couples counseling program. Issues such as parenting, finances, intimacy, and communication styles are just a few characteristics considered. It is backed by over 30 years of research.

We apply the latest therapeutic and counseling techniques to your specific life situation. The focus is usually on stress reduction, relationship improvement, purpose development, educational obstacles, and career decision-making.

Guy Stuff Counseling
EMDR

Your personal trainer for the mind

By unblocking your emotions, you can (in a sense) reprogram your brain. Then, you can begin to heal from the fear and pain associated with the trauma and emotional distress you have experienced.

Specialized men’s counseling
Support for guys and those who love them

Remember the scene in the 1999 film “The Matrix”. The terms "red pill" and "blue pill" refer to a choice between the willingness to learn a potentially unsettling or life-changing truth, by taking the red pill, or remaining in contented ignorance with the blue pill.


“The blue pill offers a viewpoint that is one of falsehood, security, and the blissful ignorance of illusion. The red pill perspective offers men the knowledge, freedom, and the sometimes-painful, truth of reality. “ (Richard Cooper)


I believe once you choose a path of coaching and/or therapy, you are in the process of picking between the two. The process of seeing the true Matrix maybe painful at first, but, once you do you can never go back. This is the journey I will ask you to take.


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